Dude, have you like, seen what’s happening in Liberia (wo)man?

Given I knew I was going to Africa for work this month (specifically Tanzania and Ethiopia, because we know Africa is not a country), I decided to load up my kindle with some Africa reading. This is how Ellen Johnson Sirleaf’s book This Child Will Be Great made it into my head.

For those who don’t know, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf is the President of Liberia. She was also the first female head of state in Africa. And by Liberia I do mean the country that spent over a decade living through civil war involving all the horrors of child soldiers, displaced people, destroyed cities and massive loss of life.

It’s fair to say that Liberia was decimated, socially, politically and economically. Not only that, but its neighbours are far from peaceful too. Sierra Leone and Cote d’Iviore have experienced terrible conflict themselves. All of this makes it a fairly unstable, and cripplingly poor, region.

So the fact that such an educated woman was elected in Liberia, and has actually stuck by the country implementing policies to significantly reduce debt, bring government spending under control, and is resisting the temptations of corruption which is so common in leadership is seriously impressive.

Ellen Sirleaf Johnson has just been reelected for a second term of government, and while Liberia’s problems are far from solved, it’s hard not to see the turnaround as a beacon of hope, a good news story, for a country which was synonymous with hopelessness.

Further reading on Liberia - Chris Blattman

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Feminism, in my view at least, should not use the power of institutions, including the state, to protect women from the right to make up their own minds. Equality must both redress gender biases and redistribute power so we all take on our share of responsibilities as well as rights. Setting up women as needing protection from male-driven sins means denying the role of Eve as the tempting source of knowledge. As an unbeliever, I quote these archetypes to illustrate my objections to some forms of so-called conservative feminism. It is not feminist to infantilise women by removing our right to make the wrong choices.

We need to recognise that all genders have similar capacities to make good and bad choices and need similar conditions in which to make them. While I am no fan of sexploitation, of objectifying and commodifying human beings, I do not see tactics of censorship and banning of particular manifestations as useful. Emphasising women as victims also contributes to gender-based biases in political thinking.

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Eva Cox speaks out with her ever-intelligent mind on who gets to use the ‘f’ word. This is in response to the Melinda Tankard-Reist storm started by Rachel Hills which is leading to some nasty in-fighting among the ‘f’ crew of Australia.

For the record, I don’t think you can be a feminist and ‘pro-life’ or anti contraception. Try being a woman in a developing country having your 12th child in as many years, with no access to contraception, and unsafe abortion being your only option? Women need access to family planning resources, and this includes options for safe abortion.

"If only Mrs Seeton and her mother and her mother before her had learnt the great art of making money and had left their money, like their fathers and their grandfathers before them, to found fellowships and lectureships and prizes and scholarships appropriated to the use of their own sex…we might have looked forward without undue confidence to a pleasant and honourable lifetime spent in the shelter of one of the liberally endowed professions…[and not] in scorn at the reprehensible poverty of our sex."

— Virginia Woolf, A Room of One’s Own.

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The view from Alexandria, Egypt, in more peaceful times.

Another week, another set of intense world events. I’ve been following the latest with Egypt all week, but have also been sharing my attention with Cyclone Yasi. It’s a strange old time.

But let’s look elsewhere for a moment:

The rules of aid blogging could easily be renamed ‘the rules of blogging,’ the points raised by Tales from the Hood are so good:

“Aid Blogging Rule #4: Don’t allow yourself to be called out. Your blog is your space where you set the rules of engagement. Only take on the issues that you want to take on. Not every idiotic or malicious comment deserves response. Pick your battles. You don’t have to argue with everybody.”

I’m not sure of the veracity of this post, but apparently Saatchi and Saatchi advertising giants have turned their ad genius to human rights in china with these Amnesty chop pencils. Interesting. - Selectism

Speaking of Human Rights, The Economist has a confronting article on rape in war time - the whole article is worth reading:

“As the reporting of rape has improved, the scale of the crime has become more horrifyingly apparent. And with the Bosnian war of the 1990s came the widespread recognition that rape has been used systematically as a weapon of war…”

I have been thinking about human connection, and this great talk by Bruce Feiler is another reminder of why it’s all about connection. Literally, all of it. When the worst strikes, all the world is noise apart from the people you are connected to. Also love his idea of the Council of Dads for his daughters.

Volkswagen have launched a new ad for the Superbowl (which I assume is a big deal, but not being American, the phenomenon escapes me a bit). But better than that is Penelope Trunk’s analysis of the ad as an anthem for Gen X.

As someone who has not spent much time with young children, or particularly watching television/film for children since I was one, I didn’t know there was such a gap in female characters for kids. Consider me alarmed:

While the percentage of female characters in children’s movies is just under 30 per cent, the percentage of female characters in crowd or group scenes is an even more pathetic 17 per cent.

The gorgeous love-interest or selfless mother or adorably ditzy sidekick might be female, but the hero and most of his friends, the villain and his lackeys, the soldiers or townspeople or ant colony population are not.- SMH (via Howling Clementine)

Have you heard Allen Ginsberg read his phenomenal poem Howl?

Travel photos from the 1950s are (unsurprisingly) awesome.

What I’ve been listening to this week: Josh Ritter.

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Let’s start with a letter to Santa by Saul Williams:

And who says I understand how to fight disingenuous governance, poverty or hate? I’m just saying I understand the importance of counterculture, of those who prefer boom over pop. Hardcore. Underground. The ones who dare to question and expose, who put their lives at risk… Those who stand up and speak out even when the masses seem apathetically addicted to the status quo, which is probably good for business. And I’m not anti-good business. I’m just for new business models. And new fashion models, while you’re at it. They don’t have to be so skinny!
             - (via Champagne Candy)

Just because she isn’t saying no…doesn’t mean she is saying yes is a Canadian anti-rape campaign discussed here by Rachel Hills:

There’s a big difference between sharing a couple of glasses of wine on a date - or flirting with someone who’s had a few vodka mixers at a club - and deliberately pursuing someone who is stumbling around wasted or passed out on the couch…

Have you heard about the new Oscar-buzz movie Black Swan starring one of my favourite actresses Natalie Portman? Here’s why I’m not going to see it (Jezebel).

Here’s what the average American thinks is spent on foreign aid (or if you prefer to watch over reading, here is Peter Singer talking about this issue).

There’s a new bottom billion, according to Andy Sumner from the Institute for Development Studies, and they live in middle-income countries, not low-income countries. Look out  for the implications for aid budgets.

What makes countries corrupt? Richard Florida, The Atlantic:

If we really want to combat corruption we must deal with the broader and much harder challenges of economic development. When less developed nations begin to leverage their knowledge, skills, and human capital to raise their levels of economic output, then the battle is already won.

When is a movement a movement?

Getting 50,000 people to join a Facebook group is impressive…but it’s not a movement. - Samba

The Cancun climate talks are in danger of collapsing, reports The Guardian.

These cartoons depicting the relationship of Belgium and The Congo are …arresting. That might not even be the right word, so take a look and come up with a better one - Africa is a country.

p.s. I know it’s not cool, but I love Christmas

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Sometimes graffiti makes me smile. Like this. I think it’s all in the ‘ew.’ (snapped in Brunswick last week).

I think we’ll start with one of the most overdue decisions ever - this week The Pope finally okayed the use of condoms based on the ‘lesser of two evils’ approach:

“Well, holy shit. This is the first time a pope has ever publicly acknowledged that condoms might be a semi-righteous choice in the context of preventing HIV in heterosexual sex. Of course, the church’s opposition to condoms as contraception remains — but this is still an enormous development, and it is shamefully overdue.” - Tracy Clark-Flory for Salon

Why does Australian law demand all vaginas be digitally altered? (NSFW)  - Mama Mia

“It’s important to be clear that this is not something magazines do to suit the taste of their readership…They’re not removing lady bits because people don’t want to see them…They’re removing them because as far as the Classification Board is concerned, the labia minora are too rude for soft porn. It’s as though the censors think you could only possibly see it by spreading your legs or pulling your flaps apart.” - Kirsten Drysdale.

A day in the life of a rape crisis centre - The Guardian

“Someone has stuck a public information poster on the wall above her computer that declares: “Rape – short word, long sentence.” But the trouble is that rape, short word or not, usually doesn’t result in a long sentence, which is why this unit has been set up”. - Amelia Gentleman

 

Kevin Rudd made an announcement that rippled through the aid world in Australia this week with the independent review of aid effectiveness - AusAID

The Independent Review of Aid Effectiveness, to be completed by April 2011, will build on existing measures to improve the effectiveness and efficiency of the aid program as Australia increases its Official Development Assistance to 0.5 per cent of Gross National Income by 2015-16.

While aid effectiveness is an important issue, so too is public opinion and support for aid programs, which is something Political Dynamite tackle this week:

“…public attitudes towards those experiencing poverty are harshly judgemental or view poverty and inequality as inevitable. But when people are better informed about inequality and life on a low income, they are more supportive of measures to reduce poverty and inequality.” - Teresa Hanley

I don’t much like The Punch, but I do like the idea of highlighting our best performing politicians for 2010. (For the record, I disagree with their first choice.)

“…the Greens have done what neither of the major parties were able to do: win votes through getting people interested political ideas.”

And let’s lighten things up a bit.

Do you see? is a fantastic initiative depicting Africa outside the stereotypes (via PSFK)

Have you seen the phenomenon that is the lying down game? It’s gone global, apparently. - PSFK

Melbourne’s kissing man, Philip Thiel, who I kissed earlier this year, has announced his new project for 2011.

For your amusement: dog owners click here and Cat owners click here.

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Another week closer to summer, and today, I can almost tell. Sunshine is on my shoulders, I’m almost warm, and I’m definitely ready for the weekend. Are you?

Links I loved this week:

Yes, I’m just another Mad Men tragic, but it’s with good reason: The Mad Men guide to changing the world with words is one of them - Copyblogger

Transparency is something I am hyper-aware of in my communications-adviser/NGO world, so my ears pricked up when I read Paul Wallbank’s thoughts on the illusion of transparency:

Transparency is one of the great excuses of our era; the belief that something is correct as long as it is disclosed has been used to justify unethical or downright deceptive behaviour by groups ranging from financial advisors to gadget bloggers - Paul Wallbank

I also surprisingly enjoyed this look at the arguments behind providing Afghanistan with more reliable electricity, mobile phones and other technologies as a way to ‘win the war.’

In my quest to learn more about where good ideas come from, I found Alain de Botton’s words interesting about workplaces (or better yet, work spaces):

Objectively good places to work rarely end up being so; in their faultlessness, quiet and well-equipped studies have a habit of rendering the fear of failure overwhelming. Original thoughts are like shy animals. We sometimes have to look the other way – towards a busy street or terminal – before they run out of their burrows. - Alain de Botton

What’s this? Another reason for me to dislike Tony Abbott? - Grogs Gamut

Thank you, Meanjin, for bringing together two of the things in my (and possibly your) life this week: Mad Men and Freedom - On liking the unlikeable: the case of Betty Draper

Are you a womanist? (Alice Walker, PDF file, via my ever-insightful friend Jo)

7 talks to help you change (the world) in one place - handy! My personal favourite is The Secret Powers of Time.

Radiohead front man Thom Yorke (one half of the voice in This Mess We’re In, perhaps my favourite song of the decade) has a new project, predictably odd: 2 minutes silence. I am not convinced enough to hand over my hard earned, but maybe you will be?

And finally, did you know 1000 people from America’s underlclass live underground in Las Vegas?

p.s. I’ve written you a letter

p.p.s. What do you think of freedom?
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Have you seen the 50 viral images the web shared in 2010 yet?

How to teach creative thinking seems like a good skill to learn (PSFK)

Always wondered how successful people started? Opening Lines takes a look the beginning of the people we all now know.

This cover letter from Hunter S. Thompson should have been required reading for my twenty year-old self. (via The Rumpus)

A brave and beautiful blog post about a traumatic pregnancy experience by Jessica Valenti, in which she explains why she is in the midst of a “new normal”

Emergencies may better be seen as occasions for fresh starts and rethinking. Because they take life and make death vivid for those who survive emergencies, they properly prompt people to appraise lives that are nearly cut short. - Tom Sorrel, NYT

With all this war, it is easy to forget the complexity of Afghanistan, but these images of the other side of Afghanistan help (NPR).

Freakonomics wants me to ask, do I buy because I bleed? Which puts a whole new spin on the Dorothy Porter poetry I bought with money earmarked for food.

Which brings me to Dorothy Porter’s advice to aspiring writers:

When planning my next book I decided I would please myself entirely – and that is the advice I give to any aspiring writers this afternoon – please yourself. I wanted ingredients that stank to high heaven of badness. I wanted graphic sex. I wanted explicit perversion. I wanted putrid language. I wanted stenching murder. I wanted to pour out my heart.

Well said.

btw - R U OK?

[image: sunflower, for the beautiful soul in my life who the sun is hiding from right now]

Sydney too violent for women - SMH reveals

It was a Saturday, around midday, and I was catching the train into the city with a girlfriend. We were excited - I was on my way to a photo shoot for Cosmopolitan magazine’s “Real Women” project, and that was something different for me back then.

I was 20, I was from Blacktown - only rich, thin, pretty girls got into the pages of a magazine, not short, pudgy, plain girls like me. I was going to get my makeup done professionally, and Kristy and I were chatting away, lost in our own worlds when he leant over the back of the train seat and pulled out a blood-filled syringe.

It all happened so quickly. The syringe, the demand for our money and mobile phones. The promise that he would stab me in the foot with it because he’d just got out of jail, and that’s where he’d be going back to, and he didn’t care if he made us sick, he just wanted his next hit, and “you’re just some dumb girl.”

We were scared. This was Sydney! It was the middle of the day! There were other people in the carriage! Not that they came to help.

We were lucky though. All we lost was some money, our phones, and a big bucket of naivety. In the nine years between then and now, I have gathered more stories like this, but none have had quite the same impact.

There is something about a ‘first time’ in this, but I’m not going to say it.

Instead, I’m going to track the stories about violence against women that hit the papers in Sydney and Melbourne for the next few weeks.

Thank you (!?), Sydney Morning Herald, for making this first post so easy with FIVE stories about violence and sexual harassment of women.

Monday 27th September brings us:

Related posts:

- Think violence against women is something that happens ‘over there’ - think again.
- How unsafe should you feel?

Banning the burqa - a debate I don’t want to debate

In the previous couple of years I have lived in a majority Muslim country, Bangladesh, and traveled through Turkey and Egypt. I confess that before I had deep personal experiences with Islam as a religion, I may have thought banning the burqa could be a lesser evil for women’s empowerment than not banning the burqa.

But now I know, I was absolutely wrong.

For some women, banning the burqa would be the equivalent experience of forcing me to wear a bikini to the supermarket in Melbourne, or a mini skirt to work. And that is something I can never support, though this is not at all what the debate is about.

After watching this week’s Insight program, and reading the article The burqa mural, should it be painted over in The Punch, I am saddened by the intensity of the debate, by the fear, and by the underlying implications that burqa=Muslim=dangerous.

One of the most common reasons given on Insight for banning the burqa was security. It was argued that the burqa should be banned because it makes identification difficult, and that is a security risk.

My thoughts? It is not women in burqas I am worried about when I am walking home from the station at midnight. It’s not women in burqas I cross the road to avoid in dark streets. It is not women in burqas I was told to be wary of when being taught stranger danger.

I find it very hard to believe that crimes are being committed in any number statistically relevant for “security risk” to be a legitimate reason to outlaw the items of clothing a woman can wear outside her home. But even if is the women in burqas we need to be identifying, then there are very practical and easy ways around it - having female personnel available to make the idenitifcation when required.

This is how the rest of the world does it, and if Australia is serious about this as a security risk, then we need to be hiring women as security and law enforcement staff specifically for the purpose of identifying these women in burqas in situations where establishing identity is paramount.

The argument that banning the burqa because it infringes on the rights of women, and contributes to the oppression of women is much more complex, and has much more validity. As someone who has worked intensely on women’s empowerment issues, and women’s empowerment issues in a majority Muslim country, I feel I am in a better position than many Australians to offer my point of view, which is why I am weighing in on the debate.

Education, education, education, and I will say it one more time - education - is the key to women’s empowerment, not outlawing an item of clothing. Educating women and girls is the sole most important, influential and effective way of empowering women the world over.

The education of males is also a part of the picture, of course, but it’s not as effective as education females. It is education that will progress culture and education that will provide women with choice.

If I thought banning the burqa would lead to improvements in the lives of women, I would be all for it, but let’s be real - this is Australia. A law against a religious item of clothing worn by a very small minority of the Australian population, is much more likely to alienate women for whom wearing the burqa is an essential part of their religious and cultural identity.

It could force these women indoors, prevent them from participating in a society outside the household, and worst of all, make them feel persecuted against by a country that calls itself the lucky country, the country of the fair go.

Please, let’s not ban the burqa. Let’s not give in to fear and prejudice and bigotry. Let’s get serious about educating women and girls around the world. Let’s get serious about giving women the world over real choices.

Did you get this far? Then you should watch this video on ‘The girl effect.’

- Watch this awesome lil vid on the girl effect (and you can donate too)

- Sheryl WuDunn on the greatest challenge of our time: gender imbalance (and why women and girls are the key to ending poverty).

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I have a picture of a very gaunt, greasy-haired Nick Cave pasted into an old journal somewhere, in recognition of my love for The Ship Song and Breathless, but this excellent article is making me question my devotion. Maybe he is just a mysoginist soandso?

The 2010 Ernie Awards for most s-xist language are out, with Tony Abbott taking out the Silver Ernie for comments like, “what the housewives of Australia need to understand as they do the ironing,” and “Are you suggesting to me that when it comes to Julia, no doesn’t mean no?”

The interwebs are full of debates about mysoginy and the bias of book reviewers to male authors. Which made me pay attention to the idea that s-xism doesn’t exist anymore, just stupidity,

In all my years of reading about it, tearing open those naughty sealed sections in magazines, watching that show about s-x with Sophie Lee from the early nineties, and everything in between, I had never come across a ‘how to’ guide for girls on losing your virginity to another girl. Until now.

I grew up here, and was sad to read my childhood stomping ground described so hopelessly:

As I rocketed along the M4 in search of a suburb so obviously bad they couldn’t even give it a colour, under an equally monotone sky, I felt sure I was doomed.

But that doesn’t mean I want to hate on rich people like this guy.

The 23rd September is Social Media for Social Good Day

Could you travel the world with no check-in baggage?

FYI, I might have to move to Denmark just so I can have a Bicycle Butler. It would only be made 100 times better if I owned this bike.

A poem called Kevin the f-cked up gold fish, how can I resist?

p.s. Like links? Here are some more.

p.p.s Paul McCartney was wrong about abattoirs and glass walls and vegetarianism…

"A skip Australian girl murdered by a dumped bloke is no less a victim than an Arab-Australian girl killed by her father for having s-x with her boyfriend and no less a victim of a notion of alleged cultural “licence”. Religious traditions transmit one, half the oeuvre of country and Western music transmits the other."

— Guy Rundle writing for Crikey: honour killings of women keep the war off the front page